Showing posts with label Pride. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Pride. Show all posts

3/17/22

A MOMENT OF FEELING PROUD OF MY POLISH ANCESTRY : I'M BROUGHT TO TEARS

Although I realize that other countries have taken in Ukrainian refugees, as I watch the videos of the Polish people giving so much of themselves, I'm brought to tears at their kindness and generosity, for the nobility of their personal sacrifice in order to save the lives of others. They did not hesitate because it is only right. Yet no country and very few individuals have unlimited resources.

So many have opened their homes and rolled up their sleeves.

A man who owns a car dealership spent over $100,000 of his personal money to buy a bus and other vehicles that he is using to drive into Ukraine and bring people into Poland. One is fortified to withstand impacts, yet he is risking his life in this action.

These are the kind of people you want in your life.  The kind of people you want to know.  Even if you never want or need for anything yourself from them.

Not the people who's personal value in life is the value of their real estate. Not those who, upon meeting you, ask you questions intended to figure your net worth. Not the people who can't resist name dropping who they know.  Who have lost all humility. Not the snobs who put their noses up in the air. (I sometimes think they must be trying to avoid their own stink.) 

Krakow and Warsaw are overwhelmed and more people, more countries must step up.  Think about how much populations have shifted due to war. I do hope it will be only temporary but the things these people have experienced already, the fear, the panic, the running, the sounds of bombing, the sirens wailing, the water and food shortages, standing on packed trains for 10 hours, the exhaustion,  the desperation, the not knowing where one will end up or how to settle, will be with them. 

I want the personal wealth of the oligarchs to be used to rebuild Ukraine. 


3/19/19

WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO BE PROUD ABOUT?

PRIDE isn't exactly the opposite of SHAME though it's assumed to be these days where so many are "proud" of their sexuality or their ethnicity or race - all bragging.  

Pride and Shame are not about something that you can't help but BE, not about how you were born, not about the superficial or the surface, how things are assumed.

Pride is about character, integrity, and accomplishments, and an accomplishment is something EARNED not a state of beingness.  Born rich?  No reason to be proud, though certainly there are many who think that this in itself is something to be judged by.

As I see it, your very humanness ought to entitle you to basic human rights but it's what you've done, not what you were gifted, that earns you pride or shame.

I've been thinking about this for some time, but the recent scandals attached to college admissions in the media have served to illustrate my point.  Parents and students scamming their way into colleges they don't deserve to attend is shameful.  Students earning their own way in - and financially sometimes through college - pride.

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